My garden in May

It’s been a glorious month in our garden, though the good weather at the start of the month took a bit of a toll on my roses, and a couple of other plants which weren’t keen on the hot spells and not much water. The roses went a bit crispy, which isn’t a good thing. Oops.

That they were in pots was a good thing as I was able to move them to a more sheltered part of the garden so they were able to recover, and they have - phew. But before we get to those, last month was all about the blossom on my crab apple tree, and well after blossom comes tiny crab apples.

small crab apples

It looks like it might be a bumper year for crab apples, not quite so for the peaches though - I’ve only spotted three fruits forming, but given that it had peach leaf curl, I suppose three is better than none. I’m hoping that all three manage to last the course to fruition - fingers crossed.

A small peach with the brick wall as a backdrop
A much larger tomato plant in a pot being watered

Both tomatoes which I bought at the Newark Garden Show last month are doing well - I’m taking no chances though and all the plants I bought at the show, and the roses and astrantia which are in ‘special measures’ are temporarily in the shelter of the trellis from the heat pump. It seems to be helping those that were suffering and these tomatoes clearly are ok with it too as they’re about to flower.

The Mottisfont rose seemed the most affected and dropped the majority of its leaves, but with a more regular watering schedule and some shelter you can see just how well it’s recovered, with plenty of new growth all over the plant.

The new growth on the recovering Mottisfont rose

The Gertrude Jeckyll wasn’t affected quite so much and has since gone on to flower more profusely than it has before, and more than the other one we had in our London garden did. So I’m hopeful that with plenty of dead-heading and another feed when the time’s right, we’ll have plenty of roses this year. At the moment the downside is they’re in a place where we can’t see them, but for now I’ll take that.

They’ve had a bit of a year as after the crispy leaves shock, they also got whitefly and now seem to have attracted blackfly - my year of the roses, seems to be ongoing!

But when they deliver flowers like this, even after all their tribulations you really can’t argue, can you?

Surprisingly the newest rose, which I hadn’t even potted on (I have now) was the least affected by the weather, whether that’s because of its position in the garden, I’m not sure. But I’m glad to see it thriving.

Rosebuds on my newer rose - Claire Austin

Elsewhere in the garden the peonies are getting to burst their tightly bound buds. One seems to be aiming for Olympic heights, but if it’s happy then I’m happy. My hardy fuchsias have behaved differently this year too, I have four or five bushes, and all bar one of them have grown new shoots from the base of the plants rather than sprouting new growth on the older stems. I left them for as long as I could, and until the frosts should have passed, but in the end I cut the twiggy stems back - and there were a lot, my compost bin is full of fuchsia sticks. I’ve left enough though for them to provide some structure and support to the newer and more tender growth. So far they seem to be doing ok, but are clearly smaller than they have been before.

I’ve been a bit obsessed with my ‘Chelsea Jackets’ wallflowers and seemingly take a picture every time I walk past them if the number of photos of them on my phone are anything to go by.

Multi-coloured wallflowers flowering against a b rick wall

I’ve had some unexpected discoveries this month too, with a couple of plants throwing up some flowers when I didn’t expect them to. The first was the iris which we bought at the Newark Garden Show. I didn’t expect much from this this year, especially as it’s still in the pot it came in, but it started to show signs of a flower and it’s become as obsessive as watching the wallflowers.

This is how it started:

The lead flower is almost there with colours which are red at the end to golden at its base

Above is the most recent picture I have, it’s already awesome and I know it’s going to be gorgeous once it’s out fully.

The other surprise flowering is taking place in our outside border, on a plant I thought was a kind of grass but now realise is probably a kind of yucca. I spotted it as I drove in one day, and went for a closer look.

Three flower heads have sprung up out of the yucca type plant
Not quite flowering but the buds are out of their casing

As you can see the flowers aren’t quite there yet, and I can’t wait to see how they look in full bloom. These also look as if they’re going to be pretty spectacular, and with the lavender in front of them, and throughout the garden, almost ready to flower it’s going to be a riot of colour and scent, and bees hopefully!

Looking down on to a lavender bush - not yet in flower

I’ve potted on and tidied up the burgundy heucheras, which also looked a bit crispy around the edges. They’ve repaid this attention with some flowers, which will be the palest of pinks when they open. My daisies have also recovered from a fair bit of neglect too, which is also good news as I really thought they were a gonner.

Burgundy heucheras in a pot
Watering the twisted cherry, the daisies bottom right and the tallest peony creeping out of shot on the left

While I don’t like to lose any plants, these were ones we bought when our previous house was on the market to dare I say tart up the garden a bit, but they’ve hung around so I would be sorry to have lost these.

This month I struck on a genius way of stopping my watering can blowing about the garden when I leave it out - I don’t know why it’s taken so long, but I realised if I threaded it over the pole of the parasol (which lives outside without the parasol) it can’t blow anywhere - and it’s easy to get to to use.

I’m so pleased with myself!

The watering can on a pole behind the newest rose

The new sign that I bought at the Devon County Show is up on the trellis and looks fab, though I did need to de-cobweb the trellis beforehand. MOH has since de-cobwebbed all of the cladding and window sills/surrounds and door steps, and let’s just say it’s not a one time job as we know the webs and fluff will be back before too long. But the sign looks good.

I love it when a plan comes together - text punched out of a rusty metal square

We also took delivery of the large pot that we bought at Grand Designs on a whim. Thankfully it works just where, and how I thought it would. As soon as we had it off the pallet I was desperate to try it where I’d imagined it. Now I have to imagine it with a standard olive tree planted in it, well until we buy one anyway - I’ve a plan to tour our local garden centres looking for one later this month!

Once it was in place MOH could see how I thought it would work, and liked it which is good news. I’ve realised I’m quite a visual person so can more easily see things in my mind than MOH can - but he trusts me, and it worked out, so that’s a result. For my larger garden design ideas I do need to work out how to get them down on paper in a way that MOH can also visualise, I think that’s going to be a bit of a challenge, but I’m sure we’ll get there.

And with more crispy plants than I’d like this month, and the fact that I’m running out of pots to put new plants in, I think the plans for our gardens will need to progress more quickly this summer. I’m sure it’s going to be a bit of a rollercoaster ride, and a lot of work, but first we need to finalise what we want.

I’ll leave you with two more of the plants we brought with us which are in my new extended hospital bay, alongside the garage. My bay trees weren’t looking so well either, they’d been up against the front wall over the winter taking shelter, but with their leaves yellowing they were also crying out for some attention.

I’ve pulled them out of the borders so they can get some more sun, but not so they’re in full sun and given them a double diluted feed of tomato feed. I picked off all of the yellow leaves from the bush on the left, which was looking healthier than its counterpart, and then picked off the worst of the yellow leaves from the other bush.

They’re already looking much healthier than they were, and it seems that bay trees in pots can be susceptible to yellow leaves due to a lack of nutrition, so a feed should help them. I’m hoping I spotted these before it was too late as we’ve had these for absolutely ages. They did start out the same size, and kept growing at similar speeds for many years. Then they spent one particularly bad winter on opposite sides of our London garden, and came out of that with different growth rates - so I can no longer pair them together, but that’s ok as I’ve realised that’s not quite what I want in this garden anyway!

Let’s hope the good weather - but not so good it makes my plants crispy again - continues!

Walking East Stoke's lanes: May 2025

I’m starting where I left off last month - with sheep and their lambs, they are so very watchable and quite often willing subjects for photographs, though in this one I think mum was less keen.

Sheep and lambs in their field in East Stoke

Last month the hedgerows and verges were full of nettles and dandelions, this month, well the dandelions are still their but as silvery heads of seeds, but the cow parsley is taking over - and it’s delightful.

Cowslip growing in the long grass with a tree in the background

I’ve only one walk to share this month, but it’s a corker. We headed down School Lane and onto Church Lane before taking the path across the field and past the Red Gutter, though at this time of year it’s hard to see that because of all the growth. The large muddy puddle I slipped my way through in March is long gone, and in its place a dry cracked patch. We’ve had little rain this month, so it’s not surprising it’s so dry.

dandelion heads and pink flowers in the verges
Taking the narrow path heading towards the Red Gutter
no muddy puddle here
Looking back across the field which we've just walked

It’s a glorious view, whichever way you walk across the field - here I’ve snapped the view of where we came from. As it was such a lovely day we decided to extend our walk and head back along the river path, this turned out to be a great decision - I mean just look at those river views and reflections.

reflections in the river trent
Just a few dandelion heads on the river's edge

I’m not sure if these are dandelion heads that have blown into the plant or the plant’s normal modus operandi, either way it was fascinating.

fluff in  a bush

One day we will get over the river and explore the path on the other side, one day!

looking across the river trent
heading along the lush river path flanked by vegetation on either side

It wasn’t long before we were back at the jetty, and a view you may recognise if you’re a regular reader of these posts. The jetty, and the posts remain visible, just - but the vegetation is doing its best to change that.

The jetty, posts and vegetation

We chose a great day for a walk, and I loved the frothiness of the cow parsley - that’s definitely one of my spring things! But I suspect by next month it won’t be quite as frothy as this.

Thanks for joining me for this update, if you enjoyed this post you may also like to see all of the posts in this series.

The Garden Year: June 2025

For this year’s Garden Year linky I’m continuing to share advice from Songbird Survival about how we can make our gardens the best they can be for birds.

This past month I’ve really been enjoying working, or more accurately pottering, in my garden - though earlier in the month I had a scare when I thought I’d lost a couple of my potted roses and the astrantia, but thankfully moving them to a more sheltered spot and giving them a more regular water has helped them through. One of the roses has even flowered - yay! The other has recovered so much that it’s grown new leaves to replace those it dropped.

My hardy fuchsias were looking very twig-like and so once I thought the frosts had passed I braved it and cut all the dead wood out, but being careful to leave enough of the sticks to support the new growth which up until now had relied on them. It seems to have worked so far…

#ThinkBirds

Songbird Survival suggest that we should aim to include five essentials in our gardens for a wildlife-friendly space, they are:

  1. Shelter - this is important for birds and small mammals to escape predators; trees, hedges and shrubs all provide places they can hide.

  2. Food - an assortment of flowers and vegetation will attract insects and berry bushes or fruit trees also provide a great source of food.

  3. Nesting - nest boxes are a great way to provide safe nesting environments for birds, but also think about planting long grasses or cardoons which supply birds with good nesting materials.

  4. Water - provide a space, such a s a shallow bird bath, which is cleaned regularly.

  5. Be natural - ditching the pesticides will help wildlife thrive!

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